How You Are Screened
Mistress Victoria Hunter, a Los Angeles Dominatrix, explains how you are screened and discloses areas She personally views, most responsible for dismissals. If new, to the BDSM scene, get informed and know what to avoid, it’s not rocket science, mostly bad manners. Those invited to private dungeons, respect and honor not only the Mistresses practice, but Her personal life.
Why You May Not Get In
Previously in good standing, but no longer? A newbie still waiting for a call back? After many years in practice, I’ve personally found it necessary to beef up My protocols and of course there is a reason.
If your new to BDSM, you wouldn’t know about it, but old timers who’ve been around a while, would. In My most polite manner, what I can say, is simply this; a major BDSM disruption challenging the time honored traditions of Dominatrices worldwide, occurred a few years ago, (circa 2011-2012) creating an overwhelming amount of confusion among newcomers and inconsideration from those who should know better.
Opportunistic behavior and capitalization is now rampant in BDSM. The media frenzy, Internet “insta-dommes” and overnight experts abound. All of it and more has made it necessary to change how I do business.
I don’t tolerate foolishness of any kind, finish reading “The Visitor” section of this site so you’ll know what to avoid, you’ll then be educated on, “What Is & Isn’t.”
Lastly, if your having difficulty finding a quality Mistress in your area, make contact and I’ll see what I can do. “A-list” Dommes are still around, but make haste while still accessible; they really have, become rare.
Why You May Not Get In
What I Look For
I only conduct sessions I personally enjoy therefore you and I should have similar session interest. You can pursue this site and clearly see my areas of interest.
I only session with those I enjoy spending time with, it matters not, whether you’ve been visiting for many years; If I observe disrespectful changes in your attitude and behavior, or your actions challenge My boundaries or jeopardizes my safety and well being, you are no longer invited back and may be placed on a circulating black list.
How to put a smile on My face. I favor those who are courteous and have impeccable manners, like the boys down south. I have a deep fondness, toward true submissive’s who understand, relinquishing their power, makes them stronger. submissive’s who care for Me and see that My needs are met, often running My errands, handling dungeon & garden repairs, maintaining My automobile or sending Me on a holiday. Lastly, caller’s following My suggested telephone & email tips are noticed and favored.
Be Mindful Of These
I Think Your ConfusedVanilla newbie’s, especially Internet babies under 45 years of age, understand “What is & What Isn’t” acceptable during a session with an Authentic Dominatrix. It matters not what you’ve seen online, or what another has allowed to occur. Although intrigued with My practice, I may not be, what you’re truly looking for. Those who do wish to session, here’s how it works…
You will gleefully pay My rate (not what you paid another) You will control yourself, respect My life and book your appointment like everyone else. There is no such thing as “stopping by.”
Obsessing over and presenting long, drawn out, detailed scripts is improper behavior and a red flag to Me.
Your penis release. If this is your reason for contacting Me, don’t. The most incredible, jaw-dropping sessions, never culminated to a release of the physical kind.
My penis. I wasn’t born with one; so don’t ask me to “peg you” (“peg” a new bdsm term, I think is stupid)
Lastly, just because you saw an activity online, doesn’t mean it’s a legal one. New callers, blatantly asking Me, if I would do, XYZ to you, is unacceptable. Did your mother teach you nothing?
I Think Your Confused
Energizer BunnyI have been a Professional Dominatrix for a proud, 18 years. From the beginning, I have been a full time practitioner; I’ve done nothing else. I love My work and I’m constantly intrigued by the people I meet.
Often not considered by most, is the amount of energy it takes to conduct a session. The physical is observable, the mental is not. Preparing for certain sessions often starts hours, sometimes even days before you arrive, and in itself, can be mentally taxing, thus adding to the overall mental expenditure, which is usually felt after, a long day of sessions.
After care, is then, just as important for Me, as it is for you. Periodic breaks, holidays, retreats (have you visited My wish list lately?) are some of the ways I replenish Myself, so I can be at My 100% when I session.
We all have limits in mental stamina, but as a Professional Dominatrix, My work requires huge amounts of it.
What does this mean to you and how can you assist? I need you to properly schedule your sessions, and when scheduled, keep them.
Of course, I will and do take same day appointments for regulars, if available. However, those consistently calling for last minute appointments, never properly scheduling, shows disrespect, a lack of concern for Me and only a concern for their urges. You are no longer in good standing and will be dismissed.
What I’d Like Visitors To Know
For many of you, this may not, even apply (well done!) nevertheless, here they are; the areas I personally view as one’s downfall. Always a challenge for Me to express, balancing the tone of My words, so I do not further add to your apprehension. Therefore, not wishing to spend further energy on this, the bottom line is; Mistress wants you to be an informed visitor. So just, put your big boy panties on and suck it up. Take a moment to review now – so you won’t regret it later.